My name is Lorraine and this is my honest review of How To Respark The Romance, which I have had a chance to review since yesterday. I’ve been reading it non-stop and wanted to share with you some of the things that stood out for me as noteworthy. You’ll see why I’m so passionate about this if you read my short blurb about myself on the left column.
Respark The Romance is a highly insightful relationship help book written by Brian Robbens.
The books are unlike any other I have ever read in that they talk about the scientific reasons of how people fall in love. And more importantly, how the feelings of passion, love, and desire can be recreated through specific steps. If you are looking to fall in love your partner or have him/her fall in love with you all over again, this book is a definite must for you.
It was refreshing to read a book on love and romance that didn’t rely on just sex or just idealized notion of trying your best or rediscovering your lost love for your partner. But don’t get me wrong, it talks and teaches about sex and plenty of it! But just not the useless dirty sort of talk. It actually tells in simple English we can all understand how sex fits into bringing that spark back into your relationship whether you’re married or just dating. And you’ll get plenty of how to bring that magic and fire back into the bedroom too using simple “do this, then do that” strategies.
This book was filled with actionable tips and strategies that will actually work. While reading, the probing questions actually made me stop and think about how it applied to my own relationships of present and past and made me realize why I had fallen in love and what made the relationships go sour in the past.
In the book for men, the amazingly simple 3 step strategy called Sexual Rubber Band Formula starts off with a simple one little things that will get women feeling that butterfly feeling in their stomaches just like the ones they get when they fall in love for the first time. And yes, OMG it really does!
For women, the strategy is called The Emotional Turbulence Crash Course. This also begins with one such little thing that gets the man’s total attention and leads him to get addicted to you and your love for him. It will basically turn him into a hopeless romantic craving to be with you and please you (both in and out of the bedroom)!)
The program is divided into two parts. The first part covers the core concepts and if you read just that part alone, you’re almost guaranteed to make tremendous changes in your relationship because it is filled with things you can do right now. I am not talking about some ideas you could implement later on or things you have to think about. These are nothing elaborate. They are very straight forward and formulaic. Do this, then do that.
And unlike other books I have read in the past on similar topics, the steps are ridiculously simple. They are in fact, stupid simple. For example, the book for men cover how to look at the woman, what to pay attention to, and how to touch her (non sexually). Better than that, it tells him why women find it irresistible by showing the science behind the concepts in plain English.
In fact, I got a little uncomfortable seeing how predictable we are. While I had a very hard time believing that men could follow certain steps and get us to feel that strong sense of connection and love, I felt myself feeling those exact feelings while reading the book and imagining my hubby doing those very things.
Come to think of it, I’m not so sure if I want men to have this book. It would be great in that they would finally understand women and be able to connect, but the potential power to abuse it is there, to be sure.
But never fear, ladies. The counterpart to the strategy laid out for men is in the book for women too.
-wink- Watch the video below to see what I mean.
As I said, the same kinds of formulaic step by step instructions can be found in the book written for women. They go over new and well-known concepts on how to look at the men, what to say, etc… It literally covers everything from A to Z, but without complicated language or too lengthy of explanations.
Even with the commonly heard concepts, you learn why they work or why they are so important based on new scientific research of hormones and chemicals.
Another great aspect I enjoyed and found so helpful was the section on the key mistakes men and women make. This section discusses these top mistakes in relation to the psychology of love and attraction.
One important distinction to make while reading this book, I think, is to realize that while love does not equal sex nor sex equal love, the two are very closely linked together and must be understood as a pair. We are biologically wired to see them as parts of a whole.
I have to say that the book did start off a bit slowly and I was quite tempted to skip over the introduction (partly because I wanted to read it quickly and get this review out to you). But I’m really glad I didn’t. And you shouldn’t either. Read every word because it is really just full of useful insights and ‘Ah Ha” moments that will change your relationships and your life.
I think for the price, this book is a must for anyone really looking to rekindle the passion and love in their relationships. You won’t be disappointed.
I wish you and your loved one all the best through a passionate and loving relationship that can be so empowering and incredible.
Wishing you a most fulfilling relationship,